Christian dating guidelines kissing
Dont spend your time in wild parties and getting drunk or in adultery and lust, or fighting, or jealousy." Dating should not include a sexual relationship. I Thessalonians 4:3-5, TLB "For God wants you to be holy and pure and to keep clear of all sexual sin so that each of you will marry in holiness and honor--not in lustful passion as the heathen do, in their ignorance of God and his ways." Brethren, courtship is the time to plan, pray and decide on the followings: It should be a time to know more about God, the Bible and pray together.I Corinthians ,18, TLB "But sexual sin is never right: our bodies were not made for that, but for the Lord. Let your location for these be a place that is not doubtful or suspicious. Rev Debo Adeyemo ________________ There are many references to the word kiss in the bible, but are concerned with greetings and sign of affection or betrayal.EDITOR'S NOTE: He Said-She Said is a biweekly advice column for singles featuring a question from a reader with responses from a male and female point of view.
Even if you’ve kissed in the past, I want to challenge you to stop kissing and start waiting from this point forward.People in the world are watching us, and they should see us conducting our lives as true followers of Jesus Christ. We must walk the walk by obeying the Word of God in every area of life. Avoid spending too much time alone, especially at night. Avoid going to R-rated movies that have a lot of lovemaking scenes. Be careful not to indulge in heavy kissing and petting.When it comes to dating between Christian men and women, we cannot mimic the dating relationships of the unsaved. These actions are forms of foreplay that lower your guard and eventually lead to sexual intercourse. Pray for direction, and then wait on God to give you peace and the plan you should implement to move forward.As born-again Christians, we should keep in mind that the word Christian indicates that we are followers of Jesus Christ.If our behavior in male/female relationships is the same as those who follow the norms of society, we only bring a reproach on the Word of God. Be selective when watching movies and listening to music.